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Random Ramblings – Residing in Yellow


Nicely, it’s been a couple of minutes of penning this weblog put up and inside these couple of minutes of typing,  I’ve gone from sharing how no person cares or thinks about you as a lot as you assume they do, transitioned to how I’m not practically clever sufficient to take part in the entire espresso store conversations occurring round me, and segwayed right into a rant about the way it’s taking all the things inside me to not go subsequent door to get a large pretzel with cheese to course of by means of my newest remedy session. Evidently, focus isn’t flowing in the identical course at the moment. What you need to take from that is: I’m going subsequent door to get the pretzel and whilst you might imagine my first assertion about others not fascinated with you as a lot as you assume they do is harsh, it’s true and it’s additionally very liberating for those who faucet into it. 

Let’s not mistake my phrases as: no person loves you or cares about you. I’m 99.99% that isn’t true. BUT. Do take my phrases because the thought that you simply’re placing into your day by day outfit, the choice you’re about to make about your job transfer, or if the pillows in your sofa needs to be inexperienced or blue, no person finds it as huge of a deal as you do. Do with that what you want [go naked, take the job offer, and green, choose green], however possibly ask your self what you’ll do in a different way proper now for those who weren’t doing it for the sake of what you assume others will assume as a result of whereas they could give it some thought for roughly 2 seconds, it gained’t go a lot additional past that till they’re again to deciding what colours THEIR pillows needs to be. That was a variety of utilizing the phrase “assume”. Let’s transfer on.

Blame the espresso store setting for the deepness. It’s a aspect impact of others speaking about faith, tradition, parenting, job satisfaction, and different verbiage I don’t perceive. 

One other huge factor on my thoughts – youngsters. This is available in phases the place it’s extra on my thoughts than others, however one thing about turning 36 in a few months is bringing a newfound stress of time that up till this level, I actually didn’t really feel or take into consideration. For the previous 15 years of marriage, I’ve loved residing within the grey area – the area the place it felt like freedom existed to not really feel like I needed to lean a technique or one other. However each month that creeps by, I’m beginning to really feel this query pop up in my head “at what level does the grey transfer to black and white – a sure or no, this manner or that approach?” sort of state of affairs. One thing is telling me that at a sure level, the choice might be made with out actively giving it a voice and naming the selection deliberately. That’s my concern associates, that point will preserve passing by and one morning I’ll get up and assume “WHY DIDN’T I DO THIS?” which is a brand new sort of concern for me. After which on the opposite aspect of that, the stream of fears [or maybe to more properly name it, the stream of freedoms I currently experience and feel in my life] that I simply can’t freaking resolve if I wish to change or not. Name me egocentric [it’s okay, I call myself this as well], however I actually like deciding at the moment that I’m going out of city tomorrow for a live performance. I additionally actually like quiet and peace and sleep. Oh my gosh, I like sleep. And I’ve cherished virtually 36 years of this and each month that creeps by I like these items extra. And now you perceive the predicament. In the end I do know I have to take this to the Lord, however I’m doing what I love to do with most issues and conserving them beneath “my management” as a result of that feels safer and a heck of much more sophisticated and messy which I will need to have a tender spot for [insert the eye covered monkey emoji here]. 

Definitely, any individual studying this understands and will get precisely what I imply. I want you in my life. I really feel like a help group for “girls who assume they need youngsters but additionally aren’t satisfied they need youngsters and are approaching an age the place they’re getting extra drained and stiff after they sit for greater than 5 minutes but additionally will be actually enjoyable with younger people and makes an attempt to do splits to point out off their youthfulness however then regrets that call 2 minutes later” appears vital. I don’t assume that’s an excessive amount of to ask. 


About that pretzel. 


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